Wednesday, May 16, 2012

KAPAMILYA...KAPUSO...MAGKAPATID


United Church of Christ in the Philippines

DISTRICT CONFERENCE OF SOUTHERN ZAMBOANGA

Christian Young Adult Fellowship

4th Annual CYAF Conference Assembly


May 10-12, 2012

Theme: Discerning And Obeying God’s Will In These Critical Times

 Subtheme: THE CHURCH IN MISSION: Called To Discipleship And Servanthood.

CYAF Subtheme: The Family As The Nucleus Of Effective Christian Stewardship And Servanthood.



KAPAMILYA NA… KAPUSO PA! Magkapatid tayong lahat


Texts:  Deuteronomy 6:4-9

                8:30 am
Community Singing:                 Welcome to the Family
                                                I’m so Glad I’m a Part of the Family of God

5 mins

Prayer
2 mins
8:40 – 8:55
Structured Learning Experience:  Building of House. 
1.      Materials needed:  scrap boxes (boxes ng zesto); popsicle sticks, used mineral bottles, masking tapes, used cartolina
2.      Divide the group. Each group will have at most 10 members
3.      Each group will get:  1 zesto box, 10 popsicle sticks, 1 mineral bottles, 1 masking tape, 1 used cartolina.
4.      in 15 minutes time, the group should be able to build a house out of the materials made available.
5.      The house will be tested based on its beauty, stability and durability.
15mins
8:55 – 9:10
Sythesis: In your group, kindly share your thoughts:
1.      What is your experience in building the house?  How close is this to your experience is building your home?
2.      Let’s look at the resources in building the house: What resources are available to you in building your home? How available are these resources to you and your family?  Why are they available? What make them scarce?
3.      How do you feel about the end result of your work? Beauty and Stability?  When can you say that your home is beautiful? What makes your home beautiful? When can you say that your home is stable?  What makes your home stable and durable?
15 mins
9:10-9:40
Reporting
30 mins
9:40– 10:20
Lecture: Kapamilya na… Kapuso pa! Magkapatid Tayong lahat!
30 mins
10:20 – 10:30
Act of Commitment:  Rebuilding the House.
Rebuild the house using materials you find in your body.
Prayer of Commitment
10 mins

KAPAMILYA NA…KAPUSO PA! Magkapatid Tayong Lahat


by Rev. Carmel Villar – Paet





Text: Deuteronomy 6:4-9



I.                    INTRODUCTION



A.     On The Assembly Theme



Your Assembly’s theme this year: The Family As The Nucleus Of Effective Christian Stewardship And Servanthood, is a takeoff from the quadrennial theme our church has set for herself:  Discerning and Obeying God’s Will in These Critical Times with a Subtheme: THE CHURCH IN MISSION: Called To Discipleship And Servanthood.



You have just declared in your theme that the family is the most important element – the nucleus – for effective Christian Stewardship and Servanthood.  Bug-at nga mga terms ug bug-at nga mga expectation for the family.  But let us look at what is happening to our family these days.



B.     Family in Crisis



The family is in crisis!



Kailangan pa bang i-memorize yan? My family has just joined the statistics: I am here… and I am working in Leyte, while my family (my husband and 3 children) are in Cavite.  Kasama na kami sa maraming pamilya karon where one of the parents work and live away from home.  This is one of the major social issues which confront our society these days.  The traditional structure of the family is challenged.  Roles are shifting.  Before, the father is the one who leaves the house to look for a job.  The mother is left at home to care for the children, the livestock and the farm.  But now in a globalized community, the delineation of family roles has shifted.  There are more fathers who stay at home, care for the children, wash dishes and clothes and wait for the wife at the end of the day or maghulat na lang kanus-a magpadala ug allowance si Nanay.  Kasi si Nanay nandun sa Saudi nag-aalaga ng anak ng iba, leaving care of her children to a next of kin or to the Tatay. Buti pa Ai-Ai at si Ate Vi, at ngayon si Pokwang, sumikat na sila at yumaman for portraying roles of mothers who had to leave their children to work abroad in order to provide for their children.  Telephone companies have gained mileage with their promotion of virtual relationship… malayo man malapit din… bringing family closer with their cellphone services.  Sa aming pamilya, yumaman na talaga ang cellphone companies … my daughter complained that her day was boring “dahil wala akong load!”  More relationships are built virtually, over the social network, over cellphone unlitext and calls.  But then, we no longer have control over who or what influences our family members because information is so available at the click of the mouse.  Without the guidance of the parents, children can open any site in the internet and be bombarded and be influenced and abused by information we have no control over.  It is scary.  The Catholic Church sounded the alarm over the breakdown in family if the RH Bill and the divorce Bills are passed.  And Bill Gates continues to control our family.  Children are fighting over who gets to use the computer first.  Kailangan talagang may PSP… kailangan talagang ang cellphone ay I-Phone or else… huli na sa uso. At mas IN kung naka I-Pad! So one day, my son asked to be IN. Nagpapabili ng PSP yung may program ng soccer (soccer player sya).  My response was… anak sila may PSP kasi yung tatay nya nagtatrabaho abroad.  Sige gusto mo alis ako magtrabaho abroad para magkaPSP ka.  Tinakot pa ang anak.  Gakos intawon ang anak, “Nanay wag kang umalis!”  Pero umalis pa rin ang nanay… at wala pa ring PSP ang anak!



We can spend the entire day just discussing the crisis the family is facing now.  Actually, the lecture on Family in Crisis requires a session of its own. I have to give credit to your assembly in bringing back the focus on the family’s critical and crucial role in Christian stewardship and servanthood. In fact, the challenge your theme has set is this: how can the family despite being in crisis be the nucleus of effective stewardship and servanthood?



C.        ON STEWARDSHIP and SERVANTHOOD

Let me briefly level off our definition and perhaps the theology on stewardship.



Kitang mga UCCP hilig kaayo ani nga term: stewardship.  I’m sure, daghan na mong nadungog nga BTR, Lecture… workshops on stewardship. Our church even has a Commission bearing the name: Commission on Stewardship and Resource Development.  From the name of the commission, we can get an idea what is our general understanding of the word stewardship.



Basic to our understanding of stewardship is proper management or handling of money/finances and physical resources.  Kaya nga during Stewardship Month in our Church Calendar which falls on November, we talk more about how to increase giving in the church. We double the effort in preaching about tithing, of supporting the ministry of the church financially.  But stewardship is more than just money talk.  Our church has expanded the meaning of stewardship.  It is based on Genesis where God entrusted the stewardship of all creation to us. 



Mao ba kini ang injong idea when you set this theme?  Do you expect a lecture on tithing and/or financial management.  If this is your expectation, then you got the wrong speaker. I did not prepare a lecture on financial management or in caring for the ecology.  Let me introduce to you another understanding of stewardship.



Stewardship comes from the Greek word “oikonomia” which means "management of a household". Although managing the household entails financial management, “oikonomia” requires taking charge of or having the responsibility to look after the welfare and well-being of the entire household.



The Biblical concept of the management of household has its roots in the institution of slavery.  E.g., Joseph was hired as steward in Potiphar’s household. The master appoints a slave/servant “to administer his household, which might include the teaching and disciplining of the members of the house, especially other slaves and the children.” [1]



In the NT, especially in the Pauline letters, stewardship refers to the administration of the gifts of God, especially preaching the gospel.

This idea is explicit in the following verses:

I Cor. 9:17 - - “If I do so willingly, I have a recompense, but if unwillingly, then I have been entrusted with a stewardship.”  (New American)

GNT:  ….I have been entrusted with this task

ABMBB - … Apan katungdanan ko ang pagbuhat niini isip tinugyanan.

Eph. 3:2 - if, as I suppose, you have heard of the stewardship of God's grace that was given to me for your benefit

Col. 1:25 - Of this church I was made a minister according to the stewardship from God bestowed on me for your benefit, that I might fully carry out the preaching of the word of God (New American Standard)

I Cor. 4:1-2 - Thus should one regard us: as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God.

Titus 1:7 - For a bishop as God's steward must be blameless, not arrogant, not irritable, not a drunkard, not aggressive, not greedy for sordid gain,

In these verses, stewardship seems to refer to the discipline and training of the Christian in the realm of faith and the preaching of God’s word.[2]  



And this is the definition we will be using throughout this BTR.



So to define your theme: The family is the nucleus- or the most important element- of effective training of Christians in the realm of faith and in preaching the Gospel.



As mentioned earlier, the concept of stewardship took its roots from the institution of slavery thus we have a unified understanding that stewardship takes its roots from servanthood.  Stewardship then equals servanthood. Therefore, we are servants entrusted with the nurture and discipline of the Christian faith and the preaching of the Gospel.  And the family is entrusted with this responsibility.



Wait a minute… kapeng mainit… isn’t the task and responsibility of instilling, nurturing and discipline of Christian faith assigned to the church?  Kaya nga di ba, atong ipadala ang atong mga anak sa Sunday School, atong ipaattend ug VCS, youth camp, Christmas institutes aron didto ilang makat-onan ang mahitungod sa atong paguo ug aron pinaagi niini nga mga programa sa simbahan motubo sila sa ilang pagtuo ug Cristohanong kinabuhi!  Trabaho sa simbahan ang pagtudlo sa pagtuo! Trabaho na ni Pastor!



Puede!  Pero kamo man ang mipili niini nga tema, as your invited speaker, it is my responsibility to enlighten us on your chosen theme.



Mas sakto baja ang injong tema kay sa sa atong yanong pagsabot. Mas sakto ang inyong hunahuna ug pagsabot nga ang FAMILY IS THE NUCLEUS OF EFFECTIVE CHRISTIAN STEWARDSHIP AND SERVANTHOOD.



II.                  The Family As The Nucleus Of Effective Christian Stewardship And Servanthood



Together, let us read Deuteronomy 6:4-9

4 - Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one.

5 - Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.

6 - These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts.

7 - Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.

8 - Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.

9 - Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.



The passage which we have just read is commonly referred to as “Shema Yisrael” or “shema” for short.  This is from the Hebrew shema which means “to hear.” THE SHEMA is the central prayer in the Jewish prayerbook (Siddur) and is often the first section of Scripture that a Jewish child learns. Many Jews recite the Shema at least twice daily: once in the morning, when you get up and once in the evening when you lie down as instructed. When recited in the synagogue, the Jews pronounce each word very carefully and cover their eyes with their right hand.



The Shema has two parts:



1.       The declaration of the faith: There is only one God and we are to love this ONE GOD with all our heart, soul and strength.  Surrounded by cultures that worshipped many gods, the Shema declares wholehearted devotion to One God. Jesus echoed the first part of the Shema in his many sermons and encounter with ordinary people and temple and law authorities.  Ibig sabihin lang nito, this truth is deeply embedded in the consciousness of the Jews because this is recited from the moment each Jewish child can speak.

2.       The second part of the Shema is the propagation of this faith to ONE GOD, to YHWH.  The Shema instructs that this devotion to One God be impressed on the children.



IBA’T-IBANG VERSION PAREHONG KAHULUGAN

Notice the word in the Shema… “impress” (NIV). Many versions use “teach them diligently to your children.

“You shall tell them to your children, and keep on telling them” (New Jerusalem) (Kulitin ba?)

Drill them into your children (New American) (Gives the idea of a training in the military or police camp where the sergeant drills the recruits until they get the routine of military life engrained in their system.

Itudlo kini kanunay sa inyong kabataan (ABMBB)



A.     THE FAMILY AS THE CHRISTIAN EDUCATION AND NURTURE and not the Church - The centrality of the family in teaching the faith



Clearly now, the Shema points to the centrality of the family in propagating the faith.  Kung ang UCCP may CEN, in the Shema, it is the family that is tasked in educating and nurturing the faith to the household.



In the Jewish culture, the home is more important than the synagogue[3].  In their culture, the teaching of the faith is assigned to the parents.  Unsa man diay ang gamit sa synagogue or temple?  The rites and rituals are performed in the temple.  But the teaching of the faith originally stays in the family.  But later, we know that the teaching of the faith is assigned to the teachers of law and is conducted in the temple/synagogue. 



Still, basic to the Jewish family is the understanding that it is in the family that faith is instilled, impressed and passed on to the children.  The father passed on the faith heritage to the son/s and the mothers to the daughters.  The book, The Red Tent by Anita Diamant, describes how the mothers (and the book claims that it was the women) passed on the faith heritage and their history to the daughters and it was the daughters who kept their stories alive.



a.        The task of teaching the faith lies primarily on the parents.



According to Dr. Marvin Wilson, an expert on the Jewish heritage of Christianity, the Hebrew language, the very root for "parent" is the word yarah. This word means, "to shoot an arrow" or "to direct" something or someone. The parent directs the child’s life. This direction applies to all areas. For instance, the father is responsible to teach his sons a trade. We remember that Jesus worked in a carpenter shop with his father. Paul had the trade of tentmaker and he exercised this skill often in his missionary work. In the Talmud it is said, "He who does not teach his son a trade is considered as having taught him thievery" (Kiddushin 29a). It should be pointed out that manual work and skills were greatly honored among the Hebrews. There was no dichotomy between the religious and secular as there often is today. In fact, the Hebrew word avad is used both for "work" and for "worship."[4]



b.       The manner of teaching the faith

i.                    talk about them when you sit at home.

Conversations inside the home centers on the faith.  This is more evident in the celebration of Jewish holidays.  For example, in the celebration of the Passover, the young child would ask "Why is this night different than other nights?" And thus the teaching begins.  During the festival of the Tabernacles or the Tent, the family builds a flimsy outdoor structure, where they often eat and sleep for a week. This is a sure delight to children.[5]

ii.                  when you walk along the road

They didn’t have buses or airplanes to get from one point to the next.  They had to walk that is why their distance is measured by how long it would take to get from a certain location to the next. Remember the conversation Jesus had with his parents when Mary and Joseph could not find him on their way back from the temple?

iii.               when you lie down and when you get up

“After the Temple was destroyed, it seems that many of its customs passed to the home, and the home became a little sanctuary (Ezek. 11:16). This is particularly seen in the customs surrounding the Sabbath and the holidays, such as Passover. The ritual candles are lit; the Sabbath bread is served (hallah); songs are sung ; children and wives are blessed. The dinner table actually becomes an altar.”[6]


iv.                Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.

Jewish people wear what is called tallit “tallit, a rectangular prayer shawl with four fringes (called tzitzit). One tzitzit is attached to each corner of the tallit. The reason for wearing the tzitzit is to remind oneself to observe all of the commandments of the Lord”[7].

In the Torah, there is a commandment to wear "fringes" on the corners of garments. That is, all garments of a certain size or larger, which have at least four corners, must have strings known as tzitzit attached. The original requirement was to have a blue thread among the white threads; however, since the precise shade of blue is no longer known and the source of the dye used, only the white threads are used (except among certain chasidic groups that claim to know the dye formula).Since the normal clothing in our time does not have four square corners, traditional Jews wear a garment that is specifically made to have four corners so that the mitzvah can be fulfilled. This is known as the tallit katan or tzitzit and is usually worn under the shirt. Some people wear them with the tzitzit showing, others conceal them. The verses giving this commandment are found in the third paragraph of the Shema, which is recited during the morning and evening prayers.During prayers, the custom is to wear a large rectangular garment with tzitzit (tallis gadol) and pray while wrapped in it. There are different customs as to when this is done. Most Ashkenazic men will begin wearing the tallis when they get married. In some Sephardic and German­Ashkenazi communities, a boy will put on a tallis when he becomes a bar­mitzvah (13 years old). There are some communities that begin this earlier. Customs vary among liberal Jews as to who wears a tallis and when it's worn.”[8]

v.                   write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates


 There’s a symbol that is used to represent and reflect that presence in our

homes and it’s called a Mezuzah. Mezuzah is the word for “doorpost” in Hebrew. The

Jews, at a point in their history, created a little box-like piece and attached it to the

doorpost of their home. In it was placed the Shema or other Scriptures. It didn’t serve as a good-luck charm, but rather as a constant reminder of the importance of God and that in this home, God is welcomed. It also reminded the inhabitants of His presence, and of

course, to pass this knowledge along to children.”[9]



III.               Making our Home as a Sanctuary



When the Israelites were in exile, they were separated from their temple.  They didn’t have synagogue.  They made their home their sanctuary.  It is where they learn about their faith and it is where they worship God.



In our study of Shema, we could see that learning about God is not something that we make a schedule of. It is part of their daily lives.  The moment they wake up, when they work, when they talk, when they travel… up to the time they lie down to bed, their life is dedicated to God and in living out their faith to God.  Their whole being is infused with their faith in God.



“When a person is praying alone, he begins the Shema with the phrase "God, Faithful King" (El melekh ne'eman) to bring the number of words in the Shema up to 248, the number of parts in the human body. This indicates that the worshiper dedicates his or her whole body to serving God. With a minyan, the chazzan repeats the end of the Shema so this phrase is unnecessary.”[10]



Their faith in God is lived out in their

a.       conversations inside the house and even outside of their homes

b.       in their dress

c.       and in their houses.  They use images and symbols to remind them of their faith in God.



IV.               Group Discussion

Group with your family… up to extended family.  What can you do to actually live out Shema in your family. What practical ways can your family:

a.       Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. How can we infuse our conversations in our family with our faith in God?  What changes in our schedules can we make so that there will be conversations in our home regarding our faith?

b.       Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.  In our fashion, how can our faith in God be lived out?

c.        Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. In our homes, what can signs or images can we put up to remind our children and the entire members of the household of our faith in God?



V.                 Conclusion. 

On the Shema.   
Sh'ma Yis'ra'eil Adonai Eloheinu Adonai echad.
Hear, Israel, the Lord [is] our God, the Lord [is] One/ alone.



Hear does not only mean auditory hearing… maminaw… sulod sa dalunggan gawas sa pikas.  This is an active listening with the intent of knowing it by heart and of obeying it.





Different renditions… same meaning

Various translators have supplied the verb "is" in different places:

Deut 6:4 (NASB):

 "Hear, O Israel! The LORD is our God, the LORD is one!

Deut 6:4 (NIV):

 Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one.

Deut 6:4 (Revised English Bible):

 "Hear, Israel: the LORD is our God, the LORD our one God;

Deut 6:4 (The Tanakh, the Jewish Publication Society translation):

 "Hear, O Israel! The LORD is our God, the LORD alone.

Deut. 6:4 (NRSV):

 "Hear, O Israel: The LORD is our God, the LORD alone."

Pero sa Hebrew, wala talagang “is”.  Nilagyan ng mga translators ang “is” so it follows the English grammar.      

Let’s look at this verse without the verb "is" and see what it looks like.

KJV: "Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God one LORD"

NRSV and the Tanakh: "Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD alone."

The first version makes no grammatical sense without the "is." The second one, however, does show grammatical sense -- "The LORD our God, the LORD alone."

Look at the word "is" in the Interlinear. It’s added in parentheses in the English, and doesn’t appear in the Hebrew at all.



These are the Hebrew words that make up this verse: Shema Yisrael, YHWH Elohaynu, YHWH echad. Shema = hear, or listen, or obey. Elohaynu is the plural possessive form of El, so it means "our God." Echad = one, or only, or alone.



We can understand the phrase YHWH Elohaynu, YHWH echad to mean "Yahweh our God, Yahweh the one and only." Without the verb "is," that is what it would mean. Therefore, from what we’ve seen so far, the entire verse could read, "Listen O Israel, Yahweh our God, Yahweh the only." That is probably much closer to what Moses meant.



However, it is also just as correct and appropriate to render the word echad as "alone." At least one source (A Concise Hebrew and Aramaic Lexicon of the Old Testament, by William Holladay) translates YHVH achad as "YHWH alone." This would render the verse as: "Hear, O Israel, Yahweh our God, Yahweh alone." [11]



With these renditions we can take Shema as

a.       a declaration of our faith to One God [a declaration on the nature of God]

b.       It’s a statement that we are to obey our God above all else!



Whatever was in the heart of the Jewish people, the Shema has strengthened them and kept their faith through the most difficult time in their history.



During their exile in Babylon, they recite the Shema as faithfully and devotedly as they could passing this to their children and to their children’s children.  When in Cyrus time, the Persian king, the Jews were allowed to return to their homeland, their faith and obedience to One God remained as strong as when Moses asked the people to recite.  Even during Holocaust, when they were tortured and persecuted for being Jews, the Shema has kept the Jews from leaving the faith and endured through suffering.



THE FILIPINO CHRISTIAN FAMILY AND THE SHEMA

 Although the Shema is not part of our prayer, this can be a guide to our family in disciplining our children into the faith and in nurturing the faith in our family.  This is challenge for the family not to leave the teaching and nurturing of the faith to the church alone.  We have to reclaim our role in raising our children into the faith and in nurturing them through the different stages and challenges of their lives.



This is a tall order since as I have stated at the start of our session that our family structure is facing changes and challenges.  How can we have a conversation regarding our faith when we are geographically separated; when our schedules hardly allow us to meet; when there are so many things that capture our attention and interest. 



But if we really care for our children and we care that our faith is nurtured to the next generation, then we really have to work doubly hard.  The shema may give us a guide… but the best guide we can ever give our children is the faith lived out in our lives.  sa atin mismo nila makikita ang ating pagtuo sa Dios.  Sugod jud tag tan-aw sa atong kaugalingong kinabuhi. 



The shema, if anything else, is a reminder that we should devote our lives to God and to God alone.



 ·  The two letters Ayin (ע) and Dalet (ד) are enlarged in the first sentence of the Shema. Together, these letters form the word 'ed (עֵד), which means "witness," suggesting that the Shema is a testimony of the sovereignty of God and our primary duty to love Him with our whole being: [12]




Amen.

 




[1] Elwell’s Theological Dictionary
[2] Elwell’s Theological Dictionary on Stewardship: The Bible Library cd-rom
[4] Marvin R. Wilson, Our Father Abraham, Jewish Roots of the Christian Faith. Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company and Center for Judaic-Christian Studies, Dayton, OH, 1989.
[5] Ibid.
[6] ibid

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